Discussion: I was a victim of incest in my youth, and now I have a problem with my husband.

Victims of incest are often young girls, sometimes with the mother's knowledge. Incest exists mainly in very conservative communities and cultures and has not yet passed away. In many places, legislation on the subject is very inconclusive. The young girl cannot resist and develops feelings of fear and guilt! Which accompanies her even in her adult life and impairs her ability to have enjoyable sex with her partner.

The girl sometimes feels guilty, and it is difficult for her to release the terrible secret! But doing so perpetuates the problem. It is essential to emphasize that the girl is the victim and is not to blame, regardless of the circumstances.

It is essential that the husband identifies with the problem and helps you in the healing process, which is, first and foremost, mental and not sexual. I recommend you talk to your husband in a well-planned conversation and explain that you do not want to complain to the police. At the same time, therapy is needed to release fears and anger from the subconscious mind, preferably through hypnosis or a similar technique.