Discussion: I am a married woman 40 plus years old after a partial resection and reconstruction of the breasts. The reconstruction seems reasonable, but I do not feel complete in my body. My husband is afraid to touch me, and I do not know what to do?

Cancer patients, in particular, need touch, warmth, and romance. There is no reason (except in difficult situations) to avoid sex. The feeling of incompleteness with the body and decreased body image accompany almost every chronic patient. However, in breast cancer patients, the crisis is much more severe. I encourage you to familiarize yourself with the Kovler-Ross grief model. It is essential to reach the fifth stage later, the "acceptance" stage. I highly recommend trying tantric sex for cancer patients because it does not emphasize physical performance but warmth, love, support, and romance. There is no prohibition against having sex (after the recovery period). You can wear sexy underwear that does not reveal what you do not want to show. It is advisable to seek the help of support groups and professionals for psychological assistance in cases of need.

Links:
LOVE is the most potent elixir of life in nature.
https://www.sf-healing.com/page/231 (Copy & Paste)

Improving sexual function In chronic patients and the disabled.
https://www.sf-healing.com/page/224 (Copy & Paste)