Discussion: I am a charming 50-year-old woman, married for over 20 years. Other men are very flattering to me. My husband does not notice me at all. I'm having an affair with a man younger than me.

An affair usually loosens the emotional bond, not just a sexual one, especially when it comes to a lengthy affair. Having an affair with a man younger than you has no special significance in modern times. The main question is, as always, where the love leads and whether life in endless lies and concealments has no emotional price. You will probably be required to decide which relationship you want to live in in the long run. Quite a few men have not learned to flatter a woman! It does not necessarily mean that they do not pay attention. After 20 years, you should know if it fits your husband's profile.