Discussion: My husband is fat, looks older than his age, and is not attractive at all.

The problem of obesity is a common phenomenon in the modern world that requires an all-around change in diet and lifestyle. Grooming is also an essential rule for overweight people. I recommend that you have a pre-planned conversation with your husband, not with criticism, but with an honest attempt to help in the change process, which can also benefit you. It is advisable to seek the help of a naturopath or a dietitian. Rejection on your part will only cause emotional distancing. Stop having sex! It is a negative message that damages the emotional bond.