Discussion: I am a 30-year-old single woman, and I have seen pornographic sites that offer guests the opportunity to participate in a pornographic movie.

You may be fulfilling a sexual fantasy, but it's essential to know that participating in sex movies distorts notions of love and sexuality and can hurt you emotionally later in life. The fantasy of having sex with an unfamiliar man is a fantasy that many women report. Exposure to cameras documenting a sexual act is part of the same fantasy. You will probably be required to sign an agreement to distribute the video in which you will participate online. Your "innocent" video may hurt you when you want to establish a relationship with a man who will not understandably accept your act.