Discussion: I'm a 55-year-old divorced woman with a 60-year-old new boyfriend. He tried twice to put on a condom, but his erection dropped.

Women are often unaware that putting on a condom is stressful for an adult man. A man's sexual performance decreases over the years and the quality of the erection. A sense of comfort and relaxation is critical to achieving a long-standing erection. Suppose your relationship with your friend is vital to you emotionally. In that case, you should ask the friend what stimulates him and create a comfortable and stress-free atmosphere. A relaxed man performs much better. Foreplay and intense emotions contribute a lot to the feeling of closeness. You can try Tantric sex as part of the foreplay.