Discussion: why do we often refrain from asking our partner to fulfill sexual fantasies? (Which can be performed in pairs)

It is common to think that couples who share sexual fantasies lead a better sex life and interpersonal communication.

Sexual fantasies are often perceived as something unusual or forbidden, even if they are carried out only by the couple, without additional participants. The legitimacy of fantasy is a cultural and social question and changes with openness and, of course, under the influence of pornographic films.

In the modern era, interpersonal communication between couples has also been significantly damaged without leisure. Fulfilling fantasies requires leisure, calmness, and an open and loving partner—all in short supply. It is easier to find substitutes! Of course, there is also shame from the partner, which does not exist with someone unfamiliar.